Every girl lives for her wedding day

​”Every girl lives for her wedding day”???

Well, embrace your wedding day…prepare for it, celebrate it.

But after that few hours of fame, the spotlight on you will be gone forever…and the real work starts.

What’s scary?

Truth: “the first year of marriage is hard…really hard“.

And it’s even more when you don’t work at marrying somebody with similar goals, dreams and passions but rather in pursuit of the “soul mate” fantasy.

If only we (especially ladies) will think and prepare more for the marriage as we do for the wedding… like how we make sure, and spend sleepless nights planning for nothing to go wrong, a lot will change in marriages.

Why women especially? Because they are powerful stakeholders of the home. A lot depends on them; even though running the home is an equal partnership. 

~Credit: Frank Powell

 (Edited and expanded)
©Mark Gadogbe (McApple), 2017

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8 thoughts on “Every girl lives for her wedding day

  1. So true! I’ve even sort of questioned the need for a big marriage ceremony anyways. Like do u really need all the decorations, people, and commotion just to SPEAK a word before God that you will be faithful to a person? Because if you think about it, a marriage is only a SPOKEN commitment to another-our word is everything… I think its nice to make that day special, but it is indeed only ONE day but the marriage should hopefully last for the rest of your life!…Awesome post my friend!

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