My wife said something yesterday:
“Your willingness to learn and unlearn things helps your marriage to work. The learning is easy; the hard work is in unlearning a habit or an attitude that you have grown up with”.
I said in my mind, wow how beautiful! You can’t surely coexist with someone by forcing on them your way of life, your upbringing.
(PS: Still learning from my wife in marriage. She’s a storehouse of wisdom but she never talks on the “open market” 😜. If you want to know what she knows, you will always have to put her on the spot. Otherwise, you wait until I bring it to you. I’m the one that blogs the stuff and spreads it on social media. So I’m the one that gets called funny little annoying names too. But nothing spoil because sometimes I take the glory 😂🙈)
Unlearning a habit and acquiring positive new ones with understanding is the challenge of most marriages around the world. Great piece!
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Very true observation bro.
God bless!
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God bless You too brother!
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Now, this is something I agree with. Many times we want to bring into a marriage all of the habits and knowledge we attained elsewhere, when a lot of times those do not serve us well with our mate. Thanks for sharing this.
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Exactly. You’re more than right! 👍👏
God bless. 🙏
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