The fact that you dated 10 years before marriage is no guarantee that your marriage will last better than those who dated for a year.
It’s about how much you learn about each other in every critical aspect of what makes a marriage work and what values or strengths the two of you possess that will make you good and compatible partners for the long haul. If you learned nothing from all those years, you and that beautiful relationship could be a waste and will not stand the test of time.
It’s never about the years; but what’s in those years.
Your works, just like scripture says, will be tested through fire to see what comes out depending on what stuffs you and the relationship are made of.