Naturally, men want sex, lots of it. Women do too, loads of it.
That’s sometimes just in principle, or theoretically speaking. Reality however is that, your want of sex and actually getting to have it as much as you want in life (and in marriage obviously), is not even totally dependent on you. It takes two to tango, and even things as simple as sex are sometimes complicated within the bounds of holy matrimony.
To put it simply, consider yourselves blessed if you and your partner have the same understanding of your sexual needs and are often on the same sexual wavelength. Often, you will discover in many relationships/marriages that one partner wants sex more, while the other wants it less. Reaching a middle ground is also sometimes a very slippery road. Don’t be surprised when you discover that, in many marriages, there are more “fights” or disagreements over sex than anything else. It’s a major make or break point in many marriages.
Many have conquered the battle or won the “war over sex”, many others too have sadly lost. There are winners and losers in the game of sex, and you might not know what you’ll get until you’re served.
I guess we can just leave it at that and wish everybody well in their sexual endeavors. It’s our prayer though, that every marriage comes out “sexually successful”. 🙏🏾😊😎
©Mark Gadogbe, 2021
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